Want To Be Her Best Lover Ever? Understand The Art of Giving Her Orgasms
So you are convinced you know how to give her an orgasm? Surveys indicate that as much as 79% of women claim that the men they’ve had sexual intercourse with have failed to make them reach orgasm. Some of that is a consequence of the years of stigma that modern society has attached to the female orgasm. Nevertheless we men have to share a big part of the fault also, frankly the majority men have not got the slightest clue about the way to give her an orgasm. Well that changes right now.
Get her in the mood during the day. Whisper everything that you are planning to do to her, send her naughty texts, begin getting her aroused early, so when you are alone, she is already aroused.
The tongue and mouth are amazing things, used well they can send your woman to the moon and back. Moreover more important given that the vast majority of women tend not to cum through penetrative vaginal sex. Actually the majority of women climax by way of clitoral stimulation. So you really need to find out how to make use of your tongue and mouth.
We all have a lot of erogenous areas, find out what works for your lover. It could be the ears, feet, nape of the neck, small of the back, inner thighs, breasts, belly button. Don’t just go for the totally obvious ones like tits, explore the entire body and caress it, tickle it, kiss it, lick it till her she is aroused.
When you are down in between her legs, better not clamp yourself there merely coming up for air, you should not give the impression the intention is to get her to cum…this will certainly make it much more challenging. Let her feel you are there only to excite and give her a good time. Gently explore the outer and inner lips, caress the clitoris, dart your tongue in and out of the vagina. Alter the pressure you apply with your tongue, alternate between firm and soft feather like brushes.
One of my favourites is to gently place the shut mouth over the clitoris and hum gently. Believe it or not, the vibrations from your mouth will shoot directly up the clit and make her sink into bliss. I also like to blow on the vagina and clit after getting it all wet, this produces a wonderful cool feeling.
Carefully place a finger or 2 inside the vagina and rub the G spot. Mix that with oral stimulation of the clit for the best results.
Depends upon on how comfortable you both are, you should not ignore the area around her anus, this lots of nerve endings and is especially sensitive, slowly licking it will add another dimension of arousal.
I do not like to make her orgasm in one visit down there. I prefer to let the energy and heat increase with some oral, then move to another part of the body, perhaps her bottom or breasts or a different erogenous area, then return to her vagina for some more oral. Like this the heat builds and builds, so when she does climax, it will totally blow her mind. Delaying the orgasm helps make it much more powerful simply because the sexual energy has time to move up and through the body; don’t forget an orgasm is meant to be a complete body experience. This one method will give her extraordinary orgasms and leave her shaking uncontrollably, and possibly even cause her to faint, I’ve experienced that first hand.
I like to mix up oral sex and vaginal sex; apart from the G spot, the vagina does not have a big amount of sensitive areas, so I choose to concentrate on oral stimulation of the clitoral area. Throughout sex, you want to apply pressure to the clitoris. You can do this successfully by positioning a pillow underneath her bottom to change the angle of penetration and then by grinding your pubic bone in a circular movement against her clitoris. Additionally vary the speed and depth of your thrusting, take your time and be aware of her body movements and her moans.
So guys, you have no excuse now. When you get home make your partner smile ear to ear and be her best lover ever.